Gloria, here are few of my picks for Rhode Island:
Federal Hill in Providence is a must do for any visiting Italophile. The food, the small Italian specialty shops and the scene itself is just fabulous. Spend a while walking Atwells Avenue and then have dinner at one of many wonderful restaurants. You might really enjoy
Mediterraneo. It's famous!
My personal favorite place to eat now in Providence is
Julian's on Broadway near the Armory. The food is heavenly, they have a nice wine list and a hefty selection of beers on draft, and it has real local flavor. The salad with smoked tofu, fresh buffalo mozzarella and warm broccoli is out of this world!
Wickford is my favorite little historic town in Rhode Island. We used to own a weekend place there on the water. It is charming, has sweet little places to eat, great little shops and is picturesque and great for feeding the ducks and geese. I always try to head down to Wickford when I'm home. It makes me feel good.
Newport is the place to see the "weekend cottages" of the rich and famous from back in the day and I highly recommend taking one or more of the tours of these
incredible mansions . The Breakers mansion is the former weekend retreat of the Vanderbilt's. It is utterly breathtaking and you really learn a lot about life at a time when people really celebrated society soirees and lavish balls.
While in Newport you might like to treat yourself to a lovely
afternoon tea. I do this whenever I can. The cliffside Inn, which is one of the Inns listed in the link I've provided, is very well known for their tea service.
Head over to
Galilee and enjoy a meal at George's, an old family staple. They serve a lobster tail in butter that is just so damn tasty and it really is an old school no fuss kind of place. The chowder is yummy too.
And as you're staying in Rhode Island I would be remiss not to tell you about the serious clam love that takes place there. You just can't beat New England clam chowder and clam cakes! In fact,
here is an article about the clam shacks in Rhode Island by the Washington Post.
Enjoy!